Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory
With plenty of space and a warm, home-like environment, our beautiful chapel can meet the needs of all Corona and Riverside families.
An Easy Process
A Compassionate Staff
The Best Value
Grief & Healing Support
Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory is With You Every Step of The Way
At Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory, we understand the importance of honoring the lives of those we love. Our compassionate team has provided families with personalized funeral and cremation services, ensuring dignity, care, and respect in every detail.
PrePlanning
Making your arrangements ahead of time at Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory will lift a tremendous burden from your family’s shoulders.
Burial
Burial remains a cherished tradition for many families. We offer full burial services, including graveside ceremonies, casket selection, and cemetery coordination.
Cremation
There are few choices more important than that of a cremation provider. It’s critical that you can trust those responsible for the care of your loved one throughout the process.
Funeral Services
Grief Support
About Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory
From one generation to another, we have passed on our most important values: compassion, community responsibility, love for family, and excellence in everything we do. When it’s time for you to plan a farewell for a loved one, or if you would like to preplan, come to a trusted neighbor. With our personalization options, comfortable facilities, reception services, and experience serving families from all different cultural and religious backgrounds – we have the resources to create a tribute that will linger in your guests’ hearts for a lifetime.
Our Services
Cremation
Find peace of mind and nearly endless options when you choose cremation with us.
Transferring remains to another funeral home
Contact us today to learn more about our transportation of remains service and how we can assist you in this difficult time.
Receiving Remains from another funeral home
If your loved one passed away in another city our caring team is here to assist with every aspect of receiving the remains with respect and professionalism.
Custom Memorial Services
Our custom memorial services are designed to create a meaningful tribute that celebrates the life, values, and legacy of the person you’ve lost.
Direct Burial
Our burial services are designed to provide peace of mind, ensuring your loved one is laid to rest with the utmost dignity and respect.
Funeral
At Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory, we don’t just plan funeral services. We partner with each Riverside family we serve to create the most meaningful, memorable celebration of life.
Veterans
If your loved one was honorably discharged from the U.S. Armed Forces, you can count on us to handle all military honors, coordinate transportation, and make arrangements on behalf of your family. Simply provide your veteran’s DD-214 and we will take care of the rest.
Graveside Service
Find peace of mind and nearly endless options when you choose cremation with us.
Pre-Arrangements
Since Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory has always been a family-owned and operated funeral home, we know what a family needs when it’s time to say goodbye to a loved one. We’ve been working with our neighbors for generations – helping them plan traditional burial or cremation services that are meaningful and truly celebrate a life.
Planning Ahead Alleviates Pressure when the Time Comes
Making your arrangements ahead of time at Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory will lift a tremendous burden from your family’s shoulders. When the time comes, they’ll be able to focus on their own healing instead of trying to guess at your wishes. And when you prepay, your costs are guaranteed. Another burden lifted from those you love.
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What Our Families are Saying
Grief & Healing Support
At Thomas Miller Mortuary & Crematory, our care for you does not stop just because the funeral is over. We understand you may need additional support in dealing with the loss of a family member or friend. Healing takes time.
How Can I Cope with Intense Emotions After Losing a Loved One?
Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s Answer: Coping with intense emotions is a natural part of the grieving process. It’s essential to allow yourself to feel and express these emotions rather than suppressing them. Dr. Wolfelt emphasizes the importance of self-compassion during this time. Here are some strategies to help you cope:
- Acknowledge Your Feelings: Accept that it’s okay to feel sadness, anger, confusion, or even guilt. These emotions are part of healing.
- Seek Support: Surround yourself with understanding friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your feelings can provide relief and connection.
- Establish Routine: Maintaining a daily routine can provide a sense of normalcy and stability amidst chaos.
- Practice Mindfulness: Engaging in mindfulness or meditation can help center your thoughts and reduce overwhelming feelings.
- Seek Professional Help: If emotions become too intense or persistent, consider reaching out to a grief counselor or therapist for specialized support.
Other Leaders’ Insights:
- David Kessler: Encourages embracing the full spectrum of emotions and understanding that grief has no set timeline.
- Katrina Spade: Highlights the importance of rituals and personal practices in processing grief.
Why Do Grief and Healing Take So Long?
Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s Answer: Grief is a highly individualized experience, and the healing process varies from person to person. Dr. Wolfelt points out that there is no “right” way or timeframe for grieving. Several factors contribute to the duration of grief:
- Nature of the Loss: Sudden or traumatic deaths often lead to more prolonged grief.
- Relationship with the Deceased: The depth and nature of your relationship can influence the grieving process.
- Personal Resilience: Individual coping mechanisms and resilience play a significant role.
- Support Systems: Access to supportive relationships and communities can aid in healing.
Dr. Wolfelt emphasizes patience and self-forgiveness during this time. It’s crucial to recognize that healing doesn’t mean forgetting but finding a way to live with the loss.
Other Leaders’ Insights:
- Mary Mac: Stresses that healing is a non-linear journey with ups and downs.
- Viki Kind: Suggests that allowing oneself the time to grieve fully is essential for genuine healing.
How Can I Support Someone Who Is Grieving?
Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s Answer: Supporting someone who is grieving requires empathy, patience, and understanding. Dr. Wolfelt offers several guidelines to effectively support a grieving individual:
- Listen Actively: Provide a safe space for them to express their feelings without judgment or unsolicited advice.
- Be Present: Sometimes, your mere presence can offer comfort. Offer your time and companionship.
- Acknowledge the Loss: Use the deceased’s name and share positive memories, which can be comforting.
- Avoid Clichés: Phrases like “They’re in a better place” may feel dismissive. Instead, acknowledge their pain.
- Offer Practical Help: Assist with daily tasks, errands, or meals to alleviate their immediate burdens.
- Encourage Professional Help: If needed, gently suggest seeking support from a grief counselor or support group.
Other Leaders’ Insights:
- Joan Lunden: Recommends being patient and understanding that grieving individuals may need time alone.
- Glenda Stansbury: Highlights the importance of validating the person’s feelings and avoiding assumptions about their experience.
How Can I Find Meaning and Purpose After a Loss?
Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s Answer: Finding meaning and purpose after a loss is a profound aspect of the healing journey. Dr. Wolfelt introduces the concept of the “Six Stages of Grief”, with the final stage being finding meaning. Here are steps to help find purpose:
- Reflect on Memories: Cherish and honor the memories of your loved one through stories, photos, or rituals.
- Engage in Meaningful Activities: Participate in activities that resonate with you and honor your loved one’s legacy.
- Connect with Others: Building new connections and strengthening existing relationships can provide support and new perspectives.
- Set Personal Goals: Establishing new goals can help redirect your focus and foster a sense of purpose.
- Volunteer or Advocate: Helping others or advocating for causes important to your loved one can create a sense of meaning.
- Seek Professional Guidance: A grief counselor can assist in exploring deeper meanings and integrating the loss into your life narrative.
Other Leaders’ Insights:
- David Kessler: Emphasizes the importance of storytelling and sharing the legacy of the deceased.
- Eleanor Barlow: Suggests creating a “legacy project”, such as a scholarship or memorial fund, to honor the loved one’s memory.
Additional Resources
- Dr. Alan Wolfelt’s Website: AlanWolfelt.com
- Books by Dr. Alan Wolfelt:
- “Healing Your Grieving Heart”
- “What If This Is Goodbye?”
- Support Groups and Counseling:
- GriefShare: GriefShare.org
- The Dougy Center: Dougy.org
Grieving is a unique and personal journey, and it’s important to honor your feelings and take the time you need to heal. Leveraging the insights and strategies provided by grief experts like Dr. Alan Wolfelt can offer guidance and support as you navigate this challenging time. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and you don’t have to go through this alone.
If you or someone you know is struggling with grief, consider reaching out to a professional counselor or support group for personalized assistance.
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